
Estate Planning During Separation or Divorce in North Carolina
Estate Planning Attorney Serving Greensboro
May I Change Beneficiary Designations on Financial Assets During Separation or Divorce?
You may change most of your beneficiaries when you separate. However, some of those changes may need to be revised as part of the divorce settlement or revised if death occurs before the divorce to preserve a spousal share. You may not change the beneficiaries on ERISA retirement accounts, like your 401k or 403b unless your soon-to-be-ex-spouse agrees to formally waive such rights by signing the required waiver on the appropriate beneficiary designation forms. After your divorce becomes final, you may change your beneficiaries provided such changes comply with your divorce order.
May I Change My Estate Planning Documents When I Become Separated?
You may change most of your documents without permission from your spouse. There are exceptions for irrevocable trusts, and for some joint revocable trusts which don’t have provisions allowing either spouse to revoke the trust.
You don’t have to name your spouse as your agent to handle financial or medical decisions, and you don’t have to leave your spouse your entire estate. However, your spouse is entitled to inherit part of your estate, unless you have a legally binding pre-nuptial or post-nuptial agreement, you have a binding legal separation agreement or, you’re officially divorced.
Even if you remove your spouse from your estate planning documents, you may not disinherit your spouse or soon to be ex-spouse unless you receive your spouse’s formal consent on a separation agreement or until you’re formally divorced. Until either of those things happen, you have a legal obligation to take care of your spouse’s necessary health needs and support, and to leave your spouse a state law defined portion of your assets, even if everything you own is in your name, you didn’t leave them anything in your estate plan, and you didn’t name them as a beneficiary on any of your accounts.


May I Remove My Spouse’s Name on a Deed Where We’re Both Named During Separation?
You will need signatures from both spouses to change the ownership of real estate which lists both spouses on the deed. Moreover, removing a spouse doesn’t remove loan obligations.
May I Purchase Property During Separation Without My Spouse’s Signature?
It’s not a good idea to purchase property in your name until you have a signed separation agreement that addresses such a purchase or until you’re officially divorced. Married individuals have property interests in real estate until a divorce, or a separation agreement absolves them of such interests.



Stories of Trust and Peace of Mind Hear From Our Happy Clients
At Law Offices of Cheryl David, your satisfaction is our priority! See for yourself what our clients have to say about working with us.
-
Thank you for guiding my family through a difficult time with kindness and expertise. Your team’s support has been invaluable, and we’re forever grateful!- Pete S.
-
Our experience with the Law Offices of Cheryl David was exceptional. Their caring team guided us through our Living Trust with professionalism and efficiency!- Sharon B.
-
Contacting Law Offices of Cheryl David was the best decision for me and my husband. Their knowledgeable team provided peace of mind and expert elder care guidance!- Sheila P.
-
Sudden illness made me realize the importance of estate planning. The team was pleasant, competent, and incredibly helpful throughout the process!- Scot F.
-
Professional, friendly, and efficient! Claudia ensured we understood everything during our annual update. Highly recommend the team at Cheryl David’s!- Charles H.
-
Blaire, Olivia, and Paula made a tough time easier with their dedication and support. Forever grateful for their help in handling my father’s estate!- Nicole H.
-
Thank you, Cheryl and team, for your genuine care and personal approach. I truly appreciate it and look forward to any updates you may have!- Phyllis B.
-
Thank you, Kelly, for your support and dedication. Your work has been a pleasure to experience, and you've truly put my mind at ease—much appreciated!- Roger Z.

Guided by Compassion, Built on Trust Our Promise to You
-
With decades of experience and a genuine understanding of family needs, we deliver legal solutions that ensure your loved ones are cared for today and tomorrow.
-
We believe in empowering families with the tools and information needed to make confident decisions about their futures. Your trust inspires our commitment to excellence.
-
From estate planning to elder law, our experienced team stands by your side, providing compassionate and reliable support tailored to your family’s unique needs.
-
Your family’s future is our priority. With personalized guidance and unwavering dedication, we help secure your loved ones’ legacies and peace of mind.
What if I Want My Ex-Spouse to Serve as My Executor or Agent on My Will, Health Care Power of Attorney and Property Power of Attorney?
There is a legal presumption that you wouldn’t want your ex-spouse to serve, but if this is what you want, and if your ex-spouse agrees to serve, your documents should reflect that you are divorced and that you want your ex-spouse to serve in this capacity.
What’s the Best Advice You Can Give Me About Changing My Beneficiaries or My Estate Plan If I’m Separated or Divorced?
My recommendation is to speak to your divorce attorney and estate planning attorney about the best practices for your situation before modifying any beneficiaries or Plans.